This book is such a generous offering to the world and to the gay community so in need of hearing these wise words. By calling out all the hurdles that still exist for gay men trying to navigate a heteronormative environment, we breathe out a collective sigh of relief.
All In: How to Make Love Stick
By Vinko Anthony, co-founder of Beau Brummell Introductions
A love story, an honest memoir, and a practical guide to building a relationship that lasts, drawn from Vinko's work helping more than 1,500 men find lasting love.
About the Book
All In is a love story and more. Vinko invites readers to see love differently: show up fully for another person, embrace vulnerability, and rediscover the art of courtship.
Vinko and his husband Andrea Zaza founded Beau Brummell Introductions to help other men find the kind of connection they share. All In tells the story of their relationship and the lessons Vinko has learned from guiding more than 1,500 men toward lasting love.
The book is for gay men, anyone looking for connection, and anyone who believes love can change everything with patience and presence.
What Readers Will Find Inside
A Love Story
How Vinko and Andrea met, built a life together, and turned their love into a matchmaking agency for men seeking lasting relationships.
An Honest Memoir
Vinko writes openly about his life, from growing up gay in a traditional Catholic Croatian family to living with HIV, finding love, and building a life with purpose.
A Guide to Strong Relationships
Practical ways to build and keep a good relationship: communicate openly, listen deeply, share honestly, and keep joy and fun at the centre of the partnership.
Lessons from Matchmaking
Vinko shares what he's learned from guiding more than 1,500 men, and what it means to go all in on a relationship.
What Readers Are Saying
Industry Reviews
“A clarion call to shed the masks we wear and embrace our true selves. This book is a powerful guide to finding love - authentic, transformative love - by first learning to love who we are. It is a must-read for anyone who is ready to embrace vulnerability and step into a life full of love, joy and soulful connection.”
The book already carries four endorsements, published on its Bookshop.org listing.
A powerful celebration of love and connection on your own terms. Vinko offers heartfelt wisdom and practical tips that resonate across all relationships - inviting us to love, listen, and trust more deeply.
A gem of guidance and enlightenment in a world of doubt and judgment, for the LGBTQ+ community and beyond.
A gem of guidance and enlightenment in a world of doubt and judgement, for LGBTQ+ community and beyond.
About the Author
Vinko Anthony co-founded Beau Brummell Introductions, a boutique matchmaking agency for gay men seeking long-term relationships. He founded the agency with his husband, Andrea Zaza, as a personal alternative to app-based dating, built on discretion, compatibility, and intentional connection.
Born in Croatia and now based in Sydney, Vinko has built an international career spanning fashion, alternative medicine, healing, and yoga, and has long been a writer and painter. He has guided more than 1,500 men toward lasting love.
Vinko Anthony in the Press
Explore the published feature on Principal Post.
Explore the published interview on IdeaMensch.
Book Details and Where to Buy
Book Details
Title: All In: How to Make Love Stick
Author: Vinko Anthony
Formats: Kindle ebook (ASIN B0G4SNHNCV); paperback (216 pages, 5.5 x 8.5 in), ISBN-10 176382506X; ebook also sold on Bookshop.org. No audiobook edition.
Paperback ISBN-13: 9781763825062
Paperback ISBN-10: 176382506X
Ebook ISBN-13: 9781763825079
Kindle ASIN: B0G4SNHNCV
Publisher: Beau Brummell Introductions
Frequently Asked Questions
Who wrote All In?
All In was written by Vinko Anthony, co-founder of Beau Brummell Introductions.
What is All In about?
It is part love story, part memoir, and part relationship guide. Vinko shares his own life and the lessons he has learned from helping more than 1,500 men find lasting love.
Who is the book for?
Gay men, anyone searching for connection, and anyone who wants to build a relationship that lasts.
Where can I buy All In?
All In is available in paperback and as a Kindle ebook on Amazon Australia and Amazon US, and as a Kindle ebook on Amazon Canada. Bookshop.org
How does the book relate to Beau Brummell Introductions?
The book draws on the same principles Vinko and Andrea use in their matchmaking work: intention, honesty, and showing up fully for another person.