How a matchmaker uses a personal approach

Dating is very personal. In fact, it’s the definition of personal. After all, getting to know someone intimately involves discovering who they and you are as a person. It would make sense to use a personal approach when dating, and yet, so much of it is so impersonal. The trend to focus on swiping, tapping, and liking has taken the humanness out of dating. Hiring a matchmaker can help make dating human again.

Matchmakers communicate with you

While dating apps attempt to be personal, there’s only so much a bio or short survey can articulate. You can’t get to know someone just by checking boxes, and matchmakers know that.

When you choose to meet someone through Beau Brummell Introductions, we will take the time to talk to you. Just like you need to communicate to know how you will connect with someone when you go on a date with them, we want to communicate with you. We will talk to you on the phone for up to forty-five minutes about everything you are looking for so we can use our personal approach to find you a match. 

Matchmakers don’t stop until you are paired up

So many in the gay dating scene meet people on and off because the process can be so exhausting. It makes sense. It takes a lot of time to repeatedly go on dates, and it can be discouraging when you don’t find someone you match with.

A matchmaker like Beau Brummell introductions won’t give up. We will work to find the right person for you because we care about you personally. While many dating sites use algorithms to match you, our service takes several hours to get to know you, and then spends the time after that finding you a match.

Matchmakers seek connection

When using a dating website or app, there is constant interaction. Someone sees a picture, they click on the picture, then they swipe or type a message. Buttons are clicked, emojis are sent, and maybe even a GIF or two are used.

All that isn’t really connection though. How can you truly know someone when all you’re doing is staring at pixels? Beau Brummell Introductions is different because we know that

connections are personal – that means person to person. If you’re using Beau Brummell Introductions, you take meeting your significant other seriously, and so does everyone else who’s using it. They want to find that personal connection as much as you do!