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Beau Brummell Introductions is the only gay matchmaking agency globally with a focus on nurturing long-term, monogamous relationships ONLY for gay men, run by two gay men.

Founded in 2010 by Vinko Anthony and Andrea Zaza – partners in life and business – Beau Brummell Introductions has the largest private database of influential and inspiring single gay men.

Our clients are only gay men who are serious about long-term relationships. No exceptions!

Our membership structure is based on success. With your active engagement, you are 100% likely to be successful.

Our client base: Joining us means gaining access to a network of like-minded individuals who share similar values and aspirations. We carefully curate our membership to ensure compatibility and alignment of goals.

We do the filtering for you, but you still have the last call – it’s your decision if you’d like to meet your introduction or not.

Unlike other matching services, at BBI everyone is a paying client. We don’t use any external databases and everyone goes through the same process. That means – we introduce you to people we know very well. Our clients are high achievers who are happy with their lives but are now looking for genuine, long-term love and commitment.

Our success rate is over 87%. In fact, BBI membership is based on success, and if you use it actively – you are 100% likely to be successful.

The service is 100% confidential, and it’s your decision if you’d like to meet your introduction or not. Our approach to matchmaking is also completely different from other companies. We offer a highly personalised and professional service, which gets to the heart of your tastes, interests, values, and needs. And then we hand-select suitable matches to find you that one exceptional partner. BBI is about doing something different to get different results.

Start by sending us your enquiry. From there, the process is very simple. Someone from our team will reach out, and after the initial phone call, if you like what we do and who we are, we will schedule a video call with you where you with the matchmaker find out if we are able to give you our helping hand. We don’t take you on board unless we are sure that we will be able to achieve success, and that you complement our clients and our clients complement you and your lifestyle.

Today. It’s the most important part of our lives, and you deserve to share your life with someone that makes you happier, healthier, and is there for you.

Being on the market for 14 years and establishing the brand to the level we have now, the numbers are big. However, we do focus on quality rather than quantity. The number varies from month to month, but we are more than happy to share more exact numbers with you throughout our initial calls.

Beau Brummell Introductions has an unparalleled list of clients, covering the full spectrum of background and professions – from business leaders and self-made professionals through to academics and blue-collar workers. With such a diverse range of clients, we’re confident that we will be able to hand-select suitable men who share your interests and values and views on the world. All our clients are looking for a long-term monogamous relationship.

We get to know you (and every one of our clients) individually over a number of 1:1 meetings so that we can truly understand who you are and what you are looking for. In many ways, the way we work is similar to an executive headhunting firm, so you can think of us as your “Personal Relationship Head-Hunter”. We continuously network and recruit to increase your pool of potential matches. So if you’re frustrated by the world of online dating or simply find it difficult to find the time to meet high-quality men, Beau Brummell Introductions gives you the opportunity to meet other discerning, high-achieving, and successful men who – just like you – are looking for someone special to share their life with.

Yes. When you get your introduction and detailed information about this person from us, you’ll be able to decide if you’d like to proceed or not.

We take your privacy and security extremely seriously. We keep a close eye on our profiles to ensure they meet our guidelines. We do not share identity or contact information without permission.

At Beau Brummell Introductions, our gay matchmaking service is designed to provide a personalised and discreet approach to finding meaningful relationships. Here’s how it works:

Initial Inquiry: Your journey begins by reaching out to us. Fill out our inquiry form on the website, and one of our consultants will get in touch with you. This first step is about getting to know your initial expectations and explaining our bespoke matchmaking process.

Private Phone Interview: We arrange a private phone interview with one of our directors or personal relationship consultants. This conversation helps us understand your relationship goals, preferences, values, and interests. It’s an essential step in building a thorough profile that guides us in finding your perfect match.

Personal Meetings: We believe in the importance of personal connection. We set up one-on-one meetings to create a detailed profile. During these meetings, we delve deeper into your preferences, background, and lifestyle to ensure a comprehensive understanding of what you’re looking for in a partner.

Hand-Picked Matching: With a deep understanding of your unique personality and preferences, our relationship experts use our expansive network to find matches that align with your criteria. Each potential match is carefully selected and presented to you, ensuring compatibility on multiple levels.

Ongoing Consultation: Our commitment doesn’t end with the initial match. We maintain constant contact with you, collecting feedback, offering advice, and providing relationship coaching. This ongoing dialogue allows us to refine potential matches and ensure we are always working towards finding you the perfect partner.

Gay dating sites and apps often fall short for those seeking committed relationships due to their focus on casual encounters and the overwhelming number of users, which can make finding a genuine connection challenging. These platforms are frequently plagued by issues such as deceptive profiles, unsolicited explicit messages, and a lack of meaningful interaction. Many gay men report feeling frustrated by the superficial nature of online dating.

In contrast, Beau Brummell Introductions offers a curated, personalised approach that prioritises quality matches over quantity. Our bespoke service ensures a focus on long-term compatibility and shared values, providing a reliable solution for those seeking a committed relationship.

We help gay men find the right, long-term relationship through a meticulous and personalised matchmaking process. Our approach begins with understanding each client’s unique needs, values, and relationship goals through in-depth interviews and personal meetings. We then leverage our extensive network and thorough vetting process to identify and introduce compatible matches. 

Our team of experienced gay matchmakers offer continuous support and gay relationship coaching, providing feedback and advice to help clients navigate their new relationships. By focusing on deep compatibility and personalised attention, we facilitate connections that have the potential to blossom into lasting, meaningful partnerships.

At Beau Brummell Introductions, we are dedicated to helping gay men find meaningful, long-term relationships through a comprehensive and personalised approach. Here’s how we do it:

Personalised Attention: We start by getting to know you on a personal level. Our service is not a one-size-fits-all approach; we take the time to understand your individual needs, values, and relationship goals. This ensures that every match is thoughtfully chosen to align with your unique personality and aspirations.

Exclusive Network: We have built an extensive network of successful, discerning gay men. This exclusive pool of potential partners increases the likelihood of finding someone who genuinely complements you and shares your vision for a committed relationship.

Thorough Vetting Process: Our rigorous vetting process includes detailed interviews and background checks to ensure that every match we present is compatible on multiple levels. We take the guesswork out of dating by introducing you to high-quality individuals who are genuinely interested in long-term commitment.

Hand-Picked Matches: With a deep understanding of your preferences and values, our relationship experts hand-pick matches from our network. Each potential partner is carefully selected to ensure compatibility, providing a solid foundation for a meaningful connection.

Continuous Support and Relationship Coaching: Our support doesn’t end with the introduction. We offer ongoing consultation and relationship coaching, providing feedback and advice to help you navigate new relationships. Our team is there for you every step of the way, ensuring you have the guidance needed to build a lasting partnership.

Confidentiality: We understand the importance of privacy and discretion in the matchmaking process. Your personal information remains confidential throughout, allowing you to focus on building a meaningful connection without concerns about privacy.

By combining personalised attention, an exclusive network, thorough vetting, hand-picked matches, continuous support, and a commitment to confidentiality, Beau Brummell Introductions provides a reliable and effective pathway to finding lasting love. Trust us to guide you on your journey towards a meaningful and fulfilling relationship.

Beau Brummell Introductions operates in multiple locations to provide our bespoke gay matchmaking services to clients worldwide. Our team is dedicated to helping you find love, no matter where you are. We are proud to offer our services in the following locations:

Australia: We have a strong presence across major cities, ensuring that our clients in Australia receive personalised and dedicated matchmaking services.

UK: Our operations in the UK, including London, cater to a diverse and vibrant community, helping you find meaningful connections.

Hong Kong: Our team in Hong Kong is well-versed in the local dating scene and is committed to helping you find your perfect match.

New Zealand: We extend our bespoke matchmaking services to clients in New Zealand, offering personalised support and guidance.

Singapore: Our presence in Singapore ensures clients receive the highest level of personalised matchmaking and gay relationship support.

USA: We operate across major cities in the USA, including New York, Chicago, Los Angeles, San Francisco, and Miami, to help you find lasting relationships.

With over fourteen years of experience, Beau Brummell Introductions specialises in creating long-lasting relationships for men not just in these locations but globally. Wherever you are, our dedicated team is here to help you find love and build a fulfilling relationship.