Signs that you’ve been using online dating for too long






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Signs that you've been using online dating for too long

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People use gay dating apps for a variety of reasons. Users might be looking for a long-term relationship, casual dates, or one-night stands. If you’re looking for someone to spend the rest of your life with, however, gay dating apps can get tiresome. It’s hard to meet people when there is a plethora of profiles to sift through, especially when so many are not looking for the same thing in a relationship as you are.

It’s sometimes hard to know when dating app fatigue hits, but if you find yourself doing the following it might be a sign that it’s time to ditch the dating apps and try out a gay matchmaker like Beau Brummell Introductions.

You start swiping left and right on actual people in public…

We’ve all faced road or sidewalk rage in our experiences as active commuters or pedestrians. Someone has cut us off on the highway or walked onto the subway before we’ve had the chance to get off. What can you do when something like this happens? You might have a few choice words as they walk or drive out of sight, or maybe even swiping left on the subway glass or windshield to show your dissatisfaction.

If this is the case, you’ve been swiping for far too long. Your body has become conditioned to the infamous action. Beau Brummell Introductions can help you find a match so you can give your swiping thumb a break! 

You check to see what percentage match you are with food…

Sites like OKCupid find you potential matches after asking you dozens and dozens of questions. Some of these questions make sense, while others seem pretty out there. Whatever the question, it can be helpful to know some of your potential partner’s preferences. No matter how many questions you answer, however, you are still more than just answers to these questions.

The same could be said about your meal choice at a restaurant. You might look for a percentage match beside the dishes to see how much of a match you are, but you’ll never truly know if you like a food until you actually taste it. If look for a percentage match on your menu, it might mean you’ve been spending a little too much time on OKCupid…

You open up your phone whenever you meet someone attractive…

Some apps give us access to the people closest to us. While that can make things convenient, it’s a strange feeling knowing that people can see exactly how far away you are from them.

Have you ever used one of these apps, like Grindr or Scruff, after meeting an attractive guy? Maybe you’re at a bar and catch a cute guy’s eye but can’t bring yourself to approach him. While many of the apps help us connect with people, in some ways they’ve made it harder for us to connect. On the other hand, Beau Brummell Introductions keeps the focus on the personal.  



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