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Los Angeles is a city built on image. Headshots, profiles, and first impressions matter here more than almost anywhere. For gay men who want a lasting relationship, that focus on looks can make [...]

London should be the easiest city in the world to meet someone. It has size, history and a huge community. Yet gay dating in London defeats a lot of men who would be considered excellent partners [...]

Melbourne is a city of overlapping communities. That is its charm, and it is also the reason gay dating in Melbourne can feel strangely closed once you are looking for something long term. The [...]

Sydney looks like an easy city to date in. There is a visible scene, a large community, and a calendar full of events. Yet gay dating in Sydney frustrates a certain kind of man, and it is usually [...]

If a few matchmaking introductions in a row have felt off, it is easy to conclude the whole thing is not working. Before you do, it is worth knowing that this moment is normal, and that it is [...]

Two people can start with the same gay matchmaker, in the same month, with similar intentions, and have very different experiences of how quickly things move. One finds a strong connection early. [...]

There is one mistake that does more damage than any other, and it happens before you ever hire a matchmaker. People hire before they are clear on what they actually want. Everything that follows- [...]

After years of helping people find serious relationships, certain patterns recur. These dating mistakes rarely announce themselves. They work quietly, from the inside, derailing the search in [...]

Is a gay matchmaker worth it? It is a fair question, and one worth answering without the usual sales gloss. A matchmaker is a significant decision, and the honest answer is that it is genuinely [...]

One of the most common questions people ask before working with a gay matchmaker is simple: how long does matchmaking take? It is a fair question, and the honest answer is far more useful than [...]