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Melbourne is a city of overlapping communities. That is its charm, and it is also the reason gay dating in Melbourne can feel strangely closed once you are looking for something long term. The [...]

If a few matchmaking introductions in a row have felt off, it is easy to conclude the whole thing is not working. Before you do, it is worth knowing that this moment is normal, and that it is [...]

Two people can start with the same gay matchmaker, in the same month, with similar intentions, and have very different experiences of how quickly things move. One finds a strong connection early. [...]

There is one mistake that does more damage than any other, and it happens before you ever hire a matchmaker. People hire before they are clear on what they actually want. Everything that follows- [...]

After years of helping people find serious relationships, certain patterns recur. These dating mistakes rarely announce themselves. They work quietly, from the inside, derailing the search in [...]

Is a gay matchmaker worth it? It is a fair question, and one worth answering without the usual sales gloss. A matchmaker is a significant decision, and the honest answer is that it is genuinely [...]

One of the most common questions people ask before working with a gay matchmaker is simple: how long does matchmaking take? It is a fair question, and the honest answer is far more useful than [...]

  Gay dating in your 40s and beyond is a different experience from dating in your 20s. It is not the way people sometimes fear. You know yourself better. You have a clearer sense of what you [...]

Most people picture gay matchmaking as a dating app with a human attached. You tell someone your type, they send you profiles, and you swipe in a slightly more expensive form. That picture is [...]

“Selective” is one of those words that gets used so often in gay matchmaking that it has almost lost its meaning. Every matchmaking service claims to be selective. Very few explain [...]